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Today’s Chicago Woman


July 2006


Sel Yackley combines the observational skills of a

journalist, the love of a mother, and the grief of a wife in

this gripping tale of what happens to a family when one

member suffers from bipolar disorder. Woven through

her story are threads of history and of social justice,

centering on a debate over capital punishment, with

opposition in principle coming not from the defense

table or civil liberties groups but from the front of the

courtroom: the judge himself. His inner debates and

torments are the center of this compelling story with

lessons for all of us.


Never Regret the Pain is enhanced by the inclusion of

poetry and letters written by Sel's husband and

children through the years. These personal words give

additional power to her writing. She is able to weave

her way through time, continents and families in

seamless transition that allows the reader to easily

follow her life journey. It is a gift from the author to the

reader to share her family's story to shed light on the

effects of mental illness. It is a book that should be

read for inspiration by others in similar situations and

to educate those who are not.


For an inspirational read in Never Regret the Pain:

Loving and Losing a Bipolar Spouse, former Chicago

Tribune writer Sel Erder Yackley recalls the

devastating effect her husband's mental illness had on

her family, the lessons she learned and how she

moved on to find peace.